Rings, Gifts and Wedding Dresses, How To Find ‘The One.’

I’m not sure where this post is going, but this ‘people being seen as clothes’ comment has been so apparent these past few days, that I can’t help but bring it to your attention.

Case # 1. I just read an email from a friend in which she sent me links to engagement rings she likes. As I clicked on the first one (with a trailing comment of ‘love this ring’), the biggest smile came across my face. Ah YES, this is the one. I’m thinking, ‘Doesn’t she already own this?’ (and then I asked her that) I mean, this is just SO her, it’s amazing. Yes, buy this. Get this one. Done deal. Close the book. Stop looking. Horray! The rest were all similar attempts, but it almost seemed like they were thrown in the email just to take up space, or to tell herself that there’s others that will work (but not as well).

Case # 2. Today I had a new client pick out his first custom shirt. His brother, who’s been a client for awhile, was sitting at the table too. The brother chimed in about what he thought was best, but it became apparent that his choices were ideal for him not for the one who would be wearing the shirt. As we combed through the swatches, I heard comments about how certain fabrics were so   (insert names of friends)_. And I absolutely agree. I can just look at a swatch of material and see how it lends itself more to one person over another. You really do start to ‘see’ people in these potential clothes and accessories. It’s a very cool realization. It requires extracting yourself and your tastes, out of the picture.

This is something to keep in mind as you do your last minute holiday shopping. It’s not about you. It’s actually about removing YOU from the process. It’s about personalization. It’s bypassing what YOU want him or her to have, because it’s what you like, and instead, thinking about what you see that person enjoying. What makes you say, ‘That is SO _(fill in name of person to whom you are giving a gift)   .’ not, ‘I really like this or have fun doing this, so I want to make that person like this too.’

When you truly start to think about the other person, the gift ideas become more apparent.

And # 3. I have found my wedding dress!! (Well, the main parts of it anyway, the finishing touches still need to be designed.) When my sister saw me in the dress, she said, ‘If people were clothes, you would be this dress.’)

Merry Christmas! Happy Hanukkah!

Lena

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Socks, Suits & Stitching: FAQ from the Boys

Remember in school you heard, “No question is a dumb question.” What may seem totally obvious to some is a major confusion to others. Here are some examples…because like your teacher used to say, “Someone probably has that same question.”

Cutting the stitching on suits:

Last weekend a client called me the morning of his wedding. We had J.Hilburn make him a gorgeous suit for his Big Day—black, single-breasted, two-button, hacking pockets, side vents, blue lining—to set him apart from the double breasted suits of his groomsmen. Let me preface by saying that this guy knows his stuff; he’s heard of the legendary Kiton suits, reads up on the latest & greatest and knows what he likes. This makes it all the more adorable when he frantically asks if he can cut the stitching off his left chest pocket—to accommodate a pocket square.

I know how it is, you may be wearing something so nice, or expensive, or custom and you really care about how you look. So the thought of messing that up makes you forget the things that you already know—basic things like: You need to cut the stitching inside your pocket to wear a pocket square and you MUST cut the stitching on the vents of your sport coat (regardless of if you have a side or center vent.)

Photo: Mr.Porter.com

Too tight freight:

I’ve seen both ends of this spectrum: the guy that (intentionally or unintentionally) wears his clothes really really close to his body (tight)…and conversely, the one who is drowning in his trousers, fearful of looking ‘too European.’ Change your shirt IF, you can see ALL of your pecs or ALL of your biceps. Change your pants, IF you can see the outline of your pockets (front or back). Or actually, if you can see anything…Change your shirt IF you can grab a handful of fabric on each side. Change your pants IF we have no idea where is your leg.

Match your belt & shoes, socks don’t matter:

Match your belt to your shoes. So that means owning a tan, black & brown belt (and shoes). Socks can be your little secret, or a conversation starter with that good looking girl sitting across from you at the airport.

brown belt & shoes Photo: JHilburn.com

tan belt & shoes-AG Jeans Photo: JHilburn.com

black belt & shoes Photo: JHilburn.com

P.S. J.Hilburn made the Forbes list of most promising companies!

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I Am Thankful for You

There are so many awesome blogs out there; a great big thanks to every one of you that reads this. I hope you continue to enjoy my stories! The best things in life are more fun when they’re shared.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

Lena

P.S. You can buy this print & other holiday fashion sketches, from artist James Nelson, here.

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Beautiful Faces With and Without Makeup

Day 2 of a bachelorette party last weekend, the girls and I had so much fun getting all dolled up by professionals. Some girls love doing their makeup, others get creative with their hair or experiment with their clothes. Regardless of which kind of girl you are, it’s always a treat to have someone else ‘get you ready.’ For a moment, we all imagined what it would be like to have this be a daily luxury—to know that virtually every time you leave the house, a team of professionals have primped you to perfection…conjuring up something that might otherwise be impossible for you to do on your own.

I don’t wear makeup everyday. Unless I have client appointments or an event, I feel as though I can bop around town without ‘my face’ on. Recently, that has been backfiring on me. I’ll run into the Apple store, grab groceries or pick up carryout…be having a less than ideal acne moment, and sure enough, run into everyone from a work contact I recently met to a guy from high school. Awesome. Then I think, I am getting older; I’m a professional, damnit—I really need to grow up and get serious about makeup.

…but then I came across this special on Barefaced Beauties—Celebrities Without Makeup…and saw that I’m in good company. :) (Aside from that Pamela Anderson shot-eek.)

Photo by Photo Agency

Here are some photos of my glammed-up old college roommates and me from this past weekend. They don’t look a day over freshman year, right?!

 

And just for fun…here is a video on how to master the cat eyes look…using Scotch tape! **Disclaimer! I have not personally tried this out, but it does make sense and the result is spot on.

How to Be a Girl: Cat Eyes By Magic! from The Hairpin on Vimeo.

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The “It” Jacket Of The Season, Half Off

I’m not sure where to even start on this topic. Maybe describing in chronological order will be best.

A year and a half ago, I tired on a leather jacket that I absolutely fell in love with. The asymmetrical cut, the grey color, the ribbed inner sleeve—oh I imagined myself wearing it casually—everyday, dressed up—to an event…even to bed? It was that comfortable…the price tag however, was not. I could not spend $800 on the spot. And so, I then categorized it in the back of my mind as something I would get…as a reward, a birthday present to myself…to mark some sort of accomplishment in my life.

Photos: revolveclothing.com

Months after, I saw Kim Kardashian wearing it and I thought (Damnit! Now Bebe is going to design a (cough) similar version next season and it will have lost it’s originality [to me].)

And then of course, that beautiful leather jacket sold out EVERYWHERE. Honestly. And you know what scarce supply does? It increases the demand. Sometimes this does terrible things to a shopper…it’ll make her think she wants something maybe a little more than she really does.

In any case, here’s where it gets creepy. I found the jacket on eBay. Score! I am terrible at eBay as I don’t check it frequently enough and the final moments of bidding give me anxiety. Nonetheless, I put in a bid. On the final day of bidding, I woke up in the morning and a number came to my head. (I know this is sounding ridiculous/long-winded but try to follow me here.) $256.63. Yes, I don’t normally wake up remembering anything from my dreams, but oddly, this number stuck out, so I wrote it down. That afternoon when it came time to bid, I put in some random number. (Again, I am not eBay savvy and never know if you should put your best offer up front.) The madness of the final seconds of bidding ensued and for reasons I cannot explain (maybe I was being cheap?) I didn’t put in ‘my number.’ The bid was over. I had lost. And the note that displayed on my screen read, “This item was sold for $256.63.”

UNBELIEVABLE.

It’s like the shopping gods were trying to help me out and I ignored it. Ha.

You know what else happened? In September, I saw a very similar cut jacket in the window at Bebe. I tried it on. Liked the look. $100? I asked the staff, ‘Is this leather?’ The answer was no.

Photo: trendbite.com

There’s a place for all kinds of clothes in your wardrobe. The inexpensive tee, the designer piece, the mass produced, the vintage and the custom. There comes a time in your life, when you want something that is quality (or at least made better than you are used to buying). I’m not talking about a specific tier of designer, I’m talking about material and workmanship. Why buy pleather if lambskin is a little more?

I left the store throwing in the towel on this (far too long of a) jacket quest.

Until…Refinery29 teamed up with Veda to offer a mega deal. Eureka! Pieces are selling out fast. So if you like what you see, hop on it! The deal ends in 5 days!

(And by the way, I changed my mind on the style I loved…while it is still gorgeous, having it called the ‘it’ jacket turned me off a little…plus the shorter front and elongated back of this style seems more refreshing.)

Photo: Shopbop.com

And what started my entire obsession, is this Rick Owens jacket:

Photo: netaporter.com

 

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Models Without Retouching

I am working on a project for a Canadian TV show. Even though I only live about 45 minutes from Ontario, I am not very familiar with all their apparel brands. I recently discovered JACOB. The interesting thing about this company is that they are the first (Canadian) fashion retailer to “no longer digitally alter the body shape of its models.” JACOB feels that retouching has become “excessive” in the fashion industry. By stopping, they hope to promote a realistic image of the female body.

Can you tell the difference in the photos? (Well of course you can.)

Photo: jacob.ca

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My Interview with The Menswear Journal

I did an interview with The Menswear Journal. It was published over the weekend.

Check it out!

Stylist Tips—Lena Piskorowski Talks Detroit Style & Building a Wardrobe

They were interested to hear about Detroit style and how guys in the ‘D’ compare to those living in the East & West coasts.

I’m learning that anything you say is really fair game to show up in print! I mean, I don’t become real angry when guys where ‘gym shoes’ as ‘real shoes’ but it does bother me…a lot.

P.S. Have you looked inside the September issue of Men’s Journal? I’m pretty proud of our (very handsome) J.Hilburn spread. You too can wear everything you see on him! (sport coat, shirt, sweater, jeans & socks!) See color options here: www.JHilburn.com

 

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Real Funny Fashion Music Videos

There’s a lot going on now fashion-wise, due to New York Fashion Week—(whether you’re in NYC or just following along cyberly—made up word,obviously). It’s easy to feel like it’s all just too much to digest & keep up with. That’s why, I find it particularly refreshing to see fashion not take itself so seriously sometimes. Enter these two videos.

One, is for the Lanvin Fall 2011 campaign, brought to my attention by Nick of The Menswear Journal. The gangly awkwardness of these models is hilarious. I’m sure (I hope) they intended to do so. Although, you can totally tell that one is trying way harder than the other. 5-6-7-8!

The second is a music video of my friend Vito Polizzi’s newest release, Dry Clean Only. Listen to the words people; he’s a clever one!

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7 Things I Learned from the People StyleWatch Event

We have now finished our second week of the People StyleWatch Celebrity Stylist Event. We launched the program last March (in 6 cities) giving one-on-one style advice through individual consultations. (All complimentary to the public—THANK YOU to our sponsors for this!) I am running the Detroit market. After having spent a significant amount of time at Twelve Oaks, here are a few things I’ve recently learned.

1. Popping your collar is no longer for preppy polo wearing high schoolers. Add length to a short neck or interest to your jacket. Such a small change, yet it makes a better difference.

sporting the Glamour Shots pose

2. 100 dogs a month are adopted from Petland. I know! I was surprised too. And happy to hear each one gets taken home.

3. If you have a lightweight material dress, try wearing it as a top under a skirt—extend the life of your purchases (and prevent you from being bored with your clothes).

4. The Kardashians launched a clothing line at Sears last week. Everything is spelled with a “K”—shocker! There’s lots of leopard…pieces are about $100. I overheard people being pissed about that. I wonder how the line will do.

5. Where would teenagers go if malls did not exist? School has been in session for one week; why do all girls already have their homecoming dresses?

6. I am pleasantly surprised by GAP’s overhaul on their designs, really. I am using quite a few of their styles inside our Denim Bar. The material is amazing! (And by that I mean, super soft and doesn’t loose its elasticity—you can wear something a few times and it doesn’t become loose/sag.) I’ve been wearing their wide-legged 1969 jeans. They are high-waisted, mega flare, and have a center seam (that makes it look more expensive). Recommend.

I also like their olive green riding pants. Suede patches on the inside of your legs? Sounds frightening, right? I was surprised at how versatile they can be (worn with heels, flat boots and so on).

7. A strong looking necklace can wake up a basic sweater & corduroy combo.

If you want to know how to wear…anything! (yes, specifically for your body & your lifestyle), then get thyself to one of our locations. Only two more weekends in September left!

People StyleWatch Magazine Events

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Vote For Me In Lucky Magazine

Lucky magazine is in need of a Lifestyle Contributor. I read the description, it seems right up my alley, so I’m going for it.

My first assignment was to write about your everyday look (for work, family, hanging out). Then write about how to make the transformation into a ‘glamorous’ look through your hair, makeup & outfit.

You can vote for me here: Lucky Life Contributor

Or if you don’t like me enough to vote without reading my entry, then read below…then vote!

“Now that I think about it, I’m actually embarrassed as to how many times, I’ve shown up in this ensemble. The nice thing is that no one has seen me wear it more than once. This is the beauty of my lifestyle—I can be a repeat offender! Ha.

I’m able to pull this off for these reasons:

I work from home and therefore I don’t see the same group of people on a daily basis. I run a style consultancy, and part of the service of my job is that I come to you. I’m meeting with clients in their homes or offices, collaborating with like-minded people on new projects over lunch and pulling clothes from various shops to create a look the client would like to achieve.

I have to look legit, but not intimidate. Before I walk out the door, I make sure that I can hang with the savvy fashion conscious but also feel down-to-earth and approachable.

A quick dissection from the bottom up:

Shoes: I love wedge shoes. Doesn’t matter what season we’re in. They are casual enough that you don’t look like a diva (which sometimes happens in heels) but they are also have an element of dressiness. If I’m going to lunch or dinner with friends, it works. If I’m seeing a client somewhere informal like his/her house, it’s acceptable. If I’m walking into a high rise office building, I don’t feel like a hillbilly. Also, because I outfit so many of my clients in custom clothes, having a shoe that gives me some height helps when I am measuring [people taller than me].

Skirt: Have any of your clothes surprised you? I bought this skirt in the beginning of the season. I ran into Target to pick something up. (I think shampoo; this was when I was going through my paraben/sulfate-free product phase). Then this piece caught my eye. It’s not amazing or anything but it’s a 2 in 1. I felt I could get some serious use out of it over the summer—tube top dress style for bbq’s or to throw on over my swim suit and high-waisted skirt style for…anything else? I love the length. Maxi’s are great, but I was sick of that summer look, so this cropped version became my ideal.

Top: I’m smaller up top. (Which you probably can’t tell as this bra is waay padded.) Therefore, wearing large scale stripes with wider space gives the look of a bigger top. Also, I like the mix of pairing two different types of stripes.

* I have also subbed in this crop top on a few occasions. Not ideal for business but for dinner or outdoor festivities—yes.

Jewelry: Simple jewelry here. Because the length is short enough, the necklace draws the attention up towards my face, after all, that’s where I want people to be looking (especially when I am talking)!

When we’re talking about the solid grey crop top, then yes (!) we most definitely need a necklace with some presence.

Bracelet: Bracelets are the accessory that I find myself always gravitating towards while shopping. This is weird, because it’s the item that I have the most of; I really should be looking for earrings. I opted for a simple bangle. When I’m talking with my hands or pointing/showing clothes to people, I don’t want this big bangely, noisey bunch of bracelets distracting anyone from what I’m saying.

Hat: Hats are funny. They give off a vibe that says you ‘know what you’re doing.’ But really, a lot of times people wear hats because their hair wasn’t working out or they haven’t showered.

Glamourous side: Glamour can mean different things to different people. For me, it’s about rich textures and exotic material. This vintage mink & leather coat (inherited from my Aunt Stella) is the most luxuuuurious item I own. The bias cut, light carmel fur evenly separated by its leather panels, a long length that screams ‘timeless’—oh it’s heaven!

Mixing metals and fabrics (lace, leather, velvet, fur, sequins (?))—try it! Even if in small doses.

In terms of makeup, I always think of that little piece of advice we’ve all heard as teenagers, ‘Your lips or your eyes, but not both.’ Deep lip colors and soft metallic eyes or a pale glossy lip and attention on the lashes—those combos seem the most alluring.

For hair, instead of wearing it ‘down’ with volume, why not pull it back and off of your face?”

So vote here: Lucky Life Contributor

Thanks everyone!

Lena

 

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