Patterned Pants & Bathroom Tiles, What They Have in Common

When you have a certain something on the brain, it seems to carry over into the rest of your life. For example, I had a brief moment in which I loved the idea of soft mint bridesmaid dresses. The contrast of pairing them with my favorite kind of deep magenta flowers looked like the ideal mix of bold and sweet. In the end, I chose peacock bridesmaid dresses and have mint green walls in my office.

 

in front of Burk's Igloo

I now dislike them [the walls] and cringe a bit when I walk into that room. (However, it’s subtleness works well as a backdrop for hanging all types of frames.) I had wedding-ness on my mind and it affected all other types of decisions I had to make during the year. (I’m cringing again, as that sounded like such a silly girl comment.)

Home decor is a challenge for me. This is because the creative choices are…permanent. (You don’t tear out cabinets a year later when you decide you aren’t feeling them anymore.) To be able to create a new ensemble daily, maybe even several times a day, is one of the reasons so many are able to experiment with their style; you can play with something until it feels right. What you wear at any given moment is a reflection of how you are feeling, what is important to you, your plans for the day and so on. In contrast, how do I know if I’ll like a bamboo wall…in two years?

As a newlywed(!) I humorously find myself in the “Bed, Bath & Beyond, if we have time” category. We are remodeling our bathroom. I know what I want, (basically mimicking one of our hotel bathrooms in Greece—that looked like a cave—but in a non scary way), just not where to get it. (Nor do I want to spend the time researching any of this.) Yesterday, I created a houzz account and after adding a few images to my Ideabook, I showed Mike my comments. I realized what I was selecting were the same elements I am drawn to in clothes. Recently, it’s been all about textures and patterns for me! The same can be said for shower tiles(?). And this is my life now…Eek! (Really though, send me your remodeling tips—I welcome them all!)

 

Photo: September 2012 Elle

Photo: houzz.com

Once I see my professional wedding pics, I will post my favs. Until then, here are a few from family & friends!

 

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The European Heaven & Hell

Hello from Istanbul!

Tomorrow is the last day of our honeymoon.

I read this in a British newspaper while on Rhodes, Greece and liked it so much, I wanted to share.

 

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Vegas, Part II Formal Wear at it’s Best

I said I was in Vegas for work, remember? Well here is a sneak peak inside our meeting at what we at J.Hilburn are launching for Fall/Winter (on Sept. 1!). And even better news, the personalized tuxedos are ready for you now! So, ‘oooh and ahhh’ away at the new fabrics and custom possibilities!

plaid shirt + herringbone sport coat...may sound intimidating but works nicely together

You can almost feel the material in this close up!

mixing stripes with paisley

remember we can do 1, 2 or 3 buttons—you choose

and notch, narrow notch or peak lapel...(from our Fall '12 soon to be printed LookBook)

you don't have to always wear your jacket with matching trousers—5 pocket chinos turn it casual

this piece is amazing (looks much better on, i assure you)

or how about making it a 3 piece suit?

or just wearing the vest...

or how about 6 buttons instead of 4? up to you...

blazer mania!

 

custom tuxedo shirts—several styles, for the traditional to the tastemaker

gorgeous quality lining

black satin self-tied bow tie—just arrived for my fiancé!

did someone say tastemaker?

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What I Saw in Vegas, Part I

The ‘just for fun’ post with commentaries from the week.

The simplest ingredients can make something delicious when put together correctly. It’s the same with your clothes.

 

tomato salad @ Milos (inside The Cosmopolitan)

random picture of a light fixture that caught my eye

every girl should experience being draped in a chandelier!

Do you notice how one guy pulls off the cowboy hat at the pool look much better than the other? It has nothing to do with physique, as you can see both men have about the same build. The guy in the grey tank top (Yes, I did just say ‘tank top’ and I don’t promote that.) has better fitting clothes—a shorter top and less baggy shorts. The guy in red, looks patriotic, but not in a good way. His shirt is too long. If you’re going to go all country, then stick with subtle colors and great fit.

(Please excuse the hack quality of these photos. I was in between meetings and have not yet mastered taking someone’s photo 1) w/out them noticing and 2) w/out feeling like a jackass. * Speaking of, one of my favorite comedians, Sebastian Maniscalco, has hilarious tweets in which he takes pics of people doing the most ridiculous things…without them knowing it. He uses #what’swrongwithpeople Check it out! I was laughing (loudly) at the airport (by myself) the other day while scrolling through his feed.

I’m forever inspired by the strip in Las Vegas—how something so grand came from nothing…built in the middle of nowhere.

view from my room

On this trip, I made it a point to check out the Flamingo…thinking it would be reminiscent of Frank Sinatra & the Rat Pack. I was sorely disappointed! It felt as though I was in a scene from National Lampoon’s Vegas Vacation.

This is what you do when you want that (super drunk) guy to stop talking to you—take his picture & say you like his style. ha

I have been coming to Las Vegas every year now for the past 8 years, and ‘the fashion’ remains the same. This is probably where the term ‘Vegas dress’ came from. My guy clients every summer tell me they want something new for their ‘boys Vegas trip’ (instead of what you normally see: rolled up dress shirt, untucked—you know the look)—yet the women seem to be perfectly happy wearing the exact same thing as all their friends. It appears to not matter what size or shape you are, the bandage dress is what you’re wearing.

Quick! Think of as many things you can put a bedazzled skull on! And then open up a shop. Only in Vegas!

And then of course, we must do it in lime green.

 

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Swim Suits, Bathing Suits, Board Shorts—Very Cool Styles

How you refer to them depends upon where you grew up. Your location also plays a role in what you consider ‘normal’ attire for: the beach, the lake, the pool, running through the sprinkler… When I’m at any of these scenes (excluding front yard sprinklers), I like to check out what the men are wearing.

One of the major things to think about when purchasing a bathing suit is length. I’ve written about the length of guy’s shorts before, but swim suits deserve a separate category.

What will you be doing? i.e. If you are surfing (and aren’t wearing a wet suit), then you’ll probably want a longer pair of trunks, as climbing back on that board can tear up your skin a bit. (especially if you are paddle boarding in the ocean—ahem, Mike (!)) For longer board shorts, I like these. I like anything ombre—hair, clothes, curtains…

Photo: Piperlime.com

Another thing I like? Rainbows. I’m not talking about the brand of sandals, I mean rainbow patterns. Maybe it’s the lack of decision making that I’m attracted too (you are wearing all the colors ‘of the rainbow’). I just love the look of these:

Photo: Nordstrom.com

Sundek has SO MANY styles at all different lengths; you will find something you like! And most all shorts have their trademark rainbow, shinning across your ass. :)

70′s luau

 

Preppy

Pastel

Bright

Photo: ShopSundek.com

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My New Favorite Canadian Brand

Not to worry Mackage, you have not been replaced! (as I am STILL pining for your gorgeous black leather jacket)

A Vancouver based boutique, Aritzia, has a new home in Michigan and I couldn’t be more delighted! It’s fixed within Somerset, very close to Madewell. This seems like a winning strategic position as it creates more of a boutique row…which rarely happens in a mall and is craved by so many Metro Detroiters.

What to love about, and expect from the shop:

1. Beautifully curated pieces (Mackage, J.Brand, Rag & Bone #the good stuff)

2. Unique styles from their own line, Wilfred (The kind of clothes that provoke people to ask where you got it.)

3. Currently showing muted palettes and desert hues

4. Super friendly staff (Yes, to be expected of a new shop, though I don’t see this fading with time.)

5. A laid back atmosphere (no one attacking you on the floor or in the dressing room)

6. Flattering tops (see below)

7. Comfortable lightweight blazers—the kind you’ll want especially in the summer, when you’re constantly transitioning from unbearably hot weather to…unbearably cold AC. (or parties that start when it’s warm and cool off towards the evening)

* Aritzia is currently having a sale—if you’re looking for an excuse to go…

Looks much cooler in person- especially in the cropped version. I picture this with ripped up jeans or a maxi skirt.

Available in a bunch of different colors and prints- this shirt will: camouflage a waist, narrow hips and elongate a neck (wonder shirt?)

Gorgeous drap to it!

Where the men sit & wait?

What girl isn't a sucker for adorable packaging?

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StyleWatch Event: Tips, Recap & Pics for Your Viewing Pleasure

The People StyleWatch magazine event was lots of fun and went by so quickly. Here’s a recap, and a few images:

I wanted to show how to mix sweet with RAH! Also a good visual to illustrate how it’s always flattering to dress in opposites—meaning, if one piece of your outfit is tight, make the other, loose/billowy/airy (instead of tight/form fitting).

 

The women on Saturday loved this dress! And it’s easy to see why: it’s a playful twist on the high low dress. It’s the same length all around but has that ‘hello there’ slit up the front. This dress will look even more interesting when the wearer is walking in it. The deep V is fantastic for breaking up the space on busty women and the empire waist is flattering on everyone…even pregnant and slightly pregnant women.

This brings me to the next recap, so many ladies gushed that they were pregnant. I wouldn’t have been able to predict otherwise as each was in her first trimester…OR had recently had a baby. Is there something in the water people? ha. What’s comical about the preggers questions is that no one wanted to look pregnant. Many people felt that empire waist tops or maxi dresses made them look pregnant (if they were or not). There was a lot of interest in swimsuit styles—looking for something cute in a one piece style, because as one young mom put it, ‘After you have a kid, you just don’t want to wear two pieces.’ I then confessed that although I am not a mother, I adore so many one piecers out now.

This neon one was a huge hit! Why? It’s diagonal angles are drastically sliming as is the small boning detail on each side. In addition, it has a high thigh cut, which, though sounding like a characteristic of a high school swim team Speedo, has an extremely leg lengthening effect.

On site makeup application compliments of Clinique. I quite like sitting in a director’s chair…

Our Ferragamo sunglass winner! (really wanted to rig that contest… :) )

A sleek new design in the world of photo booths. This one, by Onomonomedia, looks like it belongs in an Apple store. Immediately branded photos are generated for your taking home pleasure.

The most important recap here: summer fashion…well, it’s kind of a no brainer. Sure, there’s always an ‘it’ color each year…but even that doesn’t really matter. I’d hate to break the trend watchers bubble–but you really don’t need to get a wardrobe overhaul each summer. This is because…white will always look beautiful; bright colors will be appropriate; flowy dresses, linen pants and scarves versatile enough to wrap around your neck, head and hips will carry you through many summers…until you’ve worn them out! So unless these timeless summer pieces of yours are in need of replacement, make sure you have a swim suit you like and comfortable sandals and you’ll be all set.

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People StyleWatch Magazine Event: Summer Edition

If you plan on shopping this weekend, (whether you want to or have to) come by Twelve Oaks & say HI!

As we’ve done in season’s past, I’ll be giving individual style consultations: answering your wardrobe questions and putting together summer looks for you—ta-da!

Once again, the event is sponsored by People StyleWatch Magazine. (Have you read the mag? Packed full of summer wardrobe ideas & products. #really great stuff)

AND to top it all off, Clinique is our beauty sponsor. That means they’ll be ready to apply your summer makeup and give out tips on things we’ve all asked ourselves before, like: ‘How do I prevent my mascara from smearing? My foundation/powder from melting? My bronzer from looking orange? My hair from getting stuck on my lip gloss when driving? (Does anyone else have that problem?) How do I match/adjust my makeup when I’m tan? How do I look carefree and summery (like I’m not wearing makeup) but actually be wearing makeup?’ and so on…

I’m on my way to pull [clothes & accessories] for this Saturday’s event. I’ll have all kinds of styles—for EVERY body type. As you know, we are all built differently and can all look amazing (!)…just gotta learn what’s ideal for YOU.

* Individual style consultations are 10 minutes in length. Appointments can be made on site with the event manager. (at Twelve Oaks Mall, near Macy’s, look for the People StyleWatch event—think summer party setup: large yellow umbrellas, astro turf…:))

Saturday 6/16 from 12-6 PM

P.S. We’ll be doing a sweepstakes giveaway…and the prizes are FANTASTIC! i.e. Would you mind winning a pair of Ferragamo sunglasses?!

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Jewelry, Swimsuits & Heels: Wearing Geometric Shapes

We are all inspired by different things. As I stare at my inspiration board, I notice that of late, I have been way into geometric shapes. While some may gobble up floral prints, I am loving anything that has a strong angle. It also doesn’t hurt to be deep in color, bold and shiny. Here are a few pieces that I wouldn’t mind owning.

Photo: InStyle magazine

Photo: Elle magazine, A criss-cross swimsuit with draping jacket- nice play on opposites

You can wear so much with these. Take a look at the heel too...

Your tan lines will be ridiculous, but I think that's what I like about it...

The angles on this dress separate it from being a basic V-neck style

Wear this, instead of your alumni hoodie

I adore the shape of this necklace.

 

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Guys: How to Get Noticed at Night

Yesterday I was having dinner with a few friends and a gorgeous couple was seated next to us. Seriously, this guy was so good looking—kinda couldn’t help (repeatedly?) glancing in his direction. He was wearing a navy linen blazer, light blue dress shirt, I believe dark denim and…couldn’t really see the shoes, but I know he didn’t mess that up either. He had a bit of scruff and longer hair—similar to this season’s Zegna campaign, though more masculine. There was nothing out-of-the ordinary with his dress, and maybe that’s what kept my attention.

Photo: Zegna.com

 

I hear this all the time, a guy wants to stand out (in a crowd, apart from his buddies) but you need to have a healthy edit of how crazy you get with the patterns and accessories and slimness of your clothes. While not to be confused with boring, classics really do make the man. Take for example, the ensemble listed above. At the moment, I’m being drawn towards solid dress shirts. I’ve had fun dressing men in checks and plaids of all colors and scale, but now when asked, I promote the solid dress shirt—egyptian cotton, blend or linen, doesn’t matter— its simplicity is attractive and allows attention to be given to a watch, bracelets…most importantly, your face.

Summer is always the time to bring out/get creative with color. It’s also ideal for those of you who despise ironing! Not matter where you live, linen will work. It’s breathable, light and gives off that ‘I’m not uptight and know how to have fun’ vibe. Since by nature this material shows wrinkles, try wearing linen in a darker shade for a blazer (navy) or with pockets (Animas style) on a shirt, to detract from the wrinkles.

I also want to mention fit. As you know that’s part of how I make a living and is so important in what you own! Just because we’re talking about light-weight material, that doesn’t translate into sloppy. For a large population of men, they are buying clothes that are too big (not just in linen). For the men who’s task is the opposite, finding clothes that are tall enough or wide enough, I suggest High and Mighty large size clothing. Just like the name says, they’ve proved to be an excellent resource for big and tall sizing…I’m talking blazers available in 60″ chest. (that’s difficult to find in most off-the-rack retailers).

So there you go. Look sharp! Have fun! Be comfortable!…and maybe you’ll get noticed when out to dinner.

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